Should I Sleep With Him On The First Date?
Well, it's really up to you....If you want a long term relationship with the guy, then maybe you should wait until the 3rd date....If you don't really care to have a long term relationship with the guy and he's good enough for just a roll in the hay, then of course, you're an adult! If you want to, than do it! Have a hot one night stand....but remember, there could be consequences if you do choose to do so.
Honestly girls, most guys aren't going to wait around if you're past your 3rd date and still haven't put out yet. I mean, they might take you on more dates, and they might even really like you! But, they're gonna find someone else to sleep with on the side if you're not putting out. Hey, I've talked to plenty of men about this and this is what they tell me. Maybe you'll get lucky, and the guy will be a one of a kind and put up with your morals and values as a woman and actually wait until you're married.....uh huh. You just keep thinking that k....OK, bye bye now!
Seriously though...most men think with their other brain a majority of the time when it comes to women and they love to release. So whether it be with you or with the other little hottie over there, it's all up to you in the end. Remember, even if a man is married, if he's not getting it from his wife, he's gonna find it somewhere else. He might not actively look for it, but if temptation finds him, he's more than likely going to go with temptation.
My motto is; always treat your body like a temple. If he's not good enough to come to the alter, then why would you let him in the church doors?
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Steve
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First things first, what a great blog - it feels like a rollercoaster of fun before the page has fully squizzled onto the monitor (or whatever the appropriate technical phrase is). Could be clevage shot, of course, now I think about it. Not that I'm thinking about breasts all the time... except that now I am of course... but all we've proven so far is that my thinking about them is all the fault of women for, how can I put it, prompting the thought. Not that I'm blaming them for that, or suggesting they always mean to do so (present company excepted).
But... I have to disagree. Men treat sex like a commodity given the flimsiet of excuses, so you may as well build as many positive (valued) associations in our one-track minds as you possibly can, by taking your time, thereby implying that what we have "acquired" is of some innate value, and not just the common grade.
I'm not advocating a treat us mean approach... just make it seem precious at the start and then provide top class rumpy-pumpy on demand thereafter. Honestly, is that so much to ask for?