I'll be frank, I like porn. I'm probably one of the only women that can actually admit this in public as well. Women are such "delicate" creatures. Yeah, right! I mean, come on, if you can get over the fact that you probably aren't as hot as the girls in the porn video's and realize that men do think about sex like a porn, then I guarantee that porn will probably be more enjoyable to you as a woman. Quit being up-tight ladies! It's time you come to the realization that sex is a great thing and that whatever can make it even better is worth the time!
Yes, ladies, men want their sex like a porn movie, but that so doesn't mean that you have to look like a porn star. You can be sexy, confident, and freaky with out that tight butt and abs and double D's. Here is the trick; CONFIDENCE!! Yes, confidence. Yes that thing some of you lack in the bedroom, or in life, the older you get. Now I don't lack that thing called confidence in my bedroom, or his bedroom, or etc...you understand. See when you have your man's mind focused on sex and he is getting ready to be pleased by you, the last thing on his mind is the cellulite on the back of your legs, or the breasts you hate now because you have had a couple of kids. The only thing on his mind is the pleasure of the act that you are about to do. I'm serious! Men are simple, and when it comes to sex, they are even simpler.
Now when you are in the mood ladies, seduce, seduce, seduce! This, of course, should be a daily ritual. Yes ladies, DAILY! Think of it this way, if you compliment your man on the simplest things, there is that simple word again, he will love it. Absolutely! It's part of seduction.
Everyday come up behind your man and grab his butt and compliment it. Or lay a big fat kiss on him and tell him how much you love the way his lips feel when they are kissing yours. When he walks through that door from work (or vice versa), don't ever start telling him about what a bad day you had or how bad the kids have been, always ask him how his day was. You want him to feel like #1, ALWAYS!!
Don't dress like a slob. Always put on a little bit of makeup and do your hair a bit. Ladies, you never don't have enough time. Not enough time to look a little better is a terrible excuse, and believe me your man will love you more and notice you more if you don't look like a slob. Every day I get up and exercise and take a shower. I shave every where I need to as well. Trust me, part of giving your man that "porn" effect is to keep the nether regions trimmed up. I then apply make up and do my hair, every day, and not just because I have to go to work, I also do this on the weekends as well. He likes this, he notices this, and he compliments me on this. I get up early, yes, but like I said before, there is no excuse and there is always time to look your best, you just have to make it. But most and far most ladies I do this for me. If I make myself look better then I make myself feel better, and what comes with feeling better about yourself is a much more confident woman who no twit will reckon with! If your man has a confident woman who gives him everything that he wants in a relationship, then he will not go looking for someone else. Trust me, I know.
So back to the porn part of this I promise porn will work. . Porn is not an evil thing. Unless it involves small children or animals, but that is an obvious. The kind of porn I am talking about involves adults. As long as it involves a man and a woman, two women and a man, one woman and a man, two women, two men, group, etc. and then what ever you are into involving these individual adults. Because porn comes in a variety of fantasies. From the simple seduction of Sally the secretary to foot fetishes, there is a type of porn for everybody. First you need to think about what you are into and of course what your man is into. Then you go on the hunt for that type of porn. This part is easy; you don't need to go to your local sex shop down in the shitty part of town (although that can be a fun experience as well). All you need to do is google what you are looking for, or there are a few websites (well more than a few) that you can buy DVD's directly from. One of my favorites is adameve.com . Here you can search for what you are looking for in a DVD and also maybe buy a couple of other sexy things as well while you are at it. You can get porn in spurts by going on youporn.com, redtube.com, or xporn.com. From the under a minute cum shot, to over 30 minutes of what ever you are into. Just put in the search box what you are looking for and wammo bammo, there it is! And ladies, honestly, these websites are great for if you are in the mood and nobody is around to satisfy the need but you. Just type in what you are fantasising about let it play while you play to. Nobody will know but you and the visual is a wonderful thing to have and will actually increase the kabam of your orgasm! Or you can use these websites for when you and your man are bored with the DVD's you already have and want a new type of porn quick.
I'm not saying that you have to use porn all of the time you and your man have sex. All I am saying is that at times it might increase the mood and put a little umph into that same ole', same ole'. Learn to use each other as fantasies as well. Talk about what you have always wanted to try and try it! If you have always wanted to act like a school girl who is trying to seduce her teacher, do it! Slip on a little skirt, a low cut button down white shirt, some knee highs with heels, and dammit ladies, put that hair in a pony tail or two! Trust me, if your man sees you in this light and you play the whole thing down to a "T", (go for the Oscar ladies), he will always remember it and he will crave more of where that came from.
So ladies, time to loosen up! Start being more "European" in your views when it comes to sex, cause the truth is, sex IS a huge part of a relationship. Especially for the man. Wear that skin suit you call your body and accessorize it with some stiletto heals and some bright red lipstick. Walk in that room, climb on top of your man and say, "Come to Mama!"
You will be pleasantly surprised.
Yes, ladies, men want their sex like a porn movie, but that so doesn't mean that you have to look like a porn star. You can be sexy, confident, and freaky with out that tight butt and abs and double D's. Here is the trick; CONFIDENCE!! Yes, confidence. Yes that thing some of you lack in the bedroom, or in life, the older you get. Now I don't lack that thing called confidence in my bedroom, or his bedroom, or etc...you understand. See when you have your man's mind focused on sex and he is getting ready to be pleased by you, the last thing on his mind is the cellulite on the back of your legs, or the breasts you hate now because you have had a couple of kids. The only thing on his mind is the pleasure of the act that you are about to do. I'm serious! Men are simple, and when it comes to sex, they are even simpler.
Now when you are in the mood ladies, seduce, seduce, seduce! This, of course, should be a daily ritual. Yes ladies, DAILY! Think of it this way, if you compliment your man on the simplest things, there is that simple word again, he will love it. Absolutely! It's part of seduction.
Everyday come up behind your man and grab his butt and compliment it. Or lay a big fat kiss on him and tell him how much you love the way his lips feel when they are kissing yours. When he walks through that door from work (or vice versa), don't ever start telling him about what a bad day you had or how bad the kids have been, always ask him how his day was. You want him to feel like #1, ALWAYS!!
Don't dress like a slob. Always put on a little bit of makeup and do your hair a bit. Ladies, you never don't have enough time. Not enough time to look a little better is a terrible excuse, and believe me your man will love you more and notice you more if you don't look like a slob. Every day I get up and exercise and take a shower. I shave every where I need to as well. Trust me, part of giving your man that "porn" effect is to keep the nether regions trimmed up. I then apply make up and do my hair, every day, and not just because I have to go to work, I also do this on the weekends as well. He likes this, he notices this, and he compliments me on this. I get up early, yes, but like I said before, there is no excuse and there is always time to look your best, you just have to make it. But most and far most ladies I do this for me. If I make myself look better then I make myself feel better, and what comes with feeling better about yourself is a much more confident woman who no twit will reckon with! If your man has a confident woman who gives him everything that he wants in a relationship, then he will not go looking for someone else. Trust me, I know.
So back to the porn part of this I promise porn will work. . Porn is not an evil thing. Unless it involves small children or animals, but that is an obvious. The kind of porn I am talking about involves adults. As long as it involves a man and a woman, two women and a man, one woman and a man, two women, two men, group, etc. and then what ever you are into involving these individual adults. Because porn comes in a variety of fantasies. From the simple seduction of Sally the secretary to foot fetishes, there is a type of porn for everybody. First you need to think about what you are into and of course what your man is into. Then you go on the hunt for that type of porn. This part is easy; you don't need to go to your local sex shop down in the shitty part of town (although that can be a fun experience as well). All you need to do is google what you are looking for, or there are a few websites (well more than a few) that you can buy DVD's directly from. One of my favorites is adameve.com . Here you can search for what you are looking for in a DVD and also maybe buy a couple of other sexy things as well while you are at it. You can get porn in spurts by going on youporn.com, redtube.com, or xporn.com. From the under a minute cum shot, to over 30 minutes of what ever you are into. Just put in the search box what you are looking for and wammo bammo, there it is! And ladies, honestly, these websites are great for if you are in the mood and nobody is around to satisfy the need but you. Just type in what you are fantasising about let it play while you play to. Nobody will know but you and the visual is a wonderful thing to have and will actually increase the kabam of your orgasm! Or you can use these websites for when you and your man are bored with the DVD's you already have and want a new type of porn quick.
I'm not saying that you have to use porn all of the time you and your man have sex. All I am saying is that at times it might increase the mood and put a little umph into that same ole', same ole'. Learn to use each other as fantasies as well. Talk about what you have always wanted to try and try it! If you have always wanted to act like a school girl who is trying to seduce her teacher, do it! Slip on a little skirt, a low cut button down white shirt, some knee highs with heels, and dammit ladies, put that hair in a pony tail or two! Trust me, if your man sees you in this light and you play the whole thing down to a "T", (go for the Oscar ladies), he will always remember it and he will crave more of where that came from.
So ladies, time to loosen up! Start being more "European" in your views when it comes to sex, cause the truth is, sex IS a huge part of a relationship. Especially for the man. Wear that skin suit you call your body and accessorize it with some stiletto heals and some bright red lipstick. Walk in that room, climb on top of your man and say, "Come to Mama!"
You will be pleasantly surprised.
